Today is my birthday. I love birthdays. I may have mentioned it before. Any excuse to be special for a day. But I am not telling you this in the faint hope you might send me a tiara or a Nebuchadnezzar of Dom Perignon. A nod and a smile would be quite enough. A kiss might be nice.
For some reason on this day I have been reminded of when my much-loved Dad died. Returning to work the top boss, who I did not respect and therefore did not consider to have any authority over me and was not to be confused with my proper boss who was a gent and an Irishman, said “this happens every day” in way of condolence. I am not being maudlin, I am just wondering why he thought it an appropriate thing to say.
But of course it does. As do birthdays.
Happy Birthday! A special day for you, as are all our lost parents. I hope you get a tiara of your lovely flowers.
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Thank you x
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Birthday wishes to you. As for the ‘boss’ saying what he did, well there’s not much iI can say to that! I can’t manage the Tiara or the champagne but Happy Birthday to you! XXX
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Which is plenty for me! Thanks and thank you for all your lovely comments xxx
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Wishing you a birthday and year ahead of robust health, good company, inspiration and shared laughter… The comment of ‘the top boss’ just shows the wisdom of advice to ‘question authority’… Status certainly isn’t always accompanied by wisdom or compassion… let alone vision.
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Thanks you, and yes you are quite right, unfortunately this is all the more apparent at the moment.
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They could make that man the top boss, but not a gentleman. Perhaps, not overly human, now that I think of it. But birthdays, yes! In my opinion, the entire birthday month should be celebrated. At the very least, there should be very good cake. Congrats, making it through another year. Many more to come.
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So true, and thank you, I’m hoping there will be too, for all of us x
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I agree with Lora, and do find ways to treat yourself the whole of August as your birthday month. Each day you are special, but on your birthday everyone can acknowledge this. Happy Birthday and Many Happy Returns. xx
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Such a good plan, thanks Noelle x
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Happy birthday! I’ve forgotten tho; how many years till you hit 30? That champagne guy is overrated. I know a chap named Dom who has a vineyard. You could provide the bubbles. xx
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This is why you are my friend. 🙂
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Happy birthday Gill. Sending you a cornucopia of good wishes from Down Under. They’ll be on ice as it’s freezing here.🎂
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Fabulous, thanks and keep wrapped up! x
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Happy Birthday Gill! Only listen to what your heart says 🙂 Be healthy and be happy with the loved ones! Celebrate a month, a day, or one hour, as you wish, you are your own boss :)) And to many more!
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Thanks Gabby x
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Happy birthday! xx
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Thanks Mike x
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
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Thank you 🙂
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🎂💐🎉🍾🥂
Hippy Birday – hic!
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I am! Thanks x
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Hope you’ve had a fab day & got spoilt rotten 😉. Miss you! Pennyxx
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It was great thank you, miss you too x
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Happy birthday. I don’t have Nebuchadnezzar but magnums of champagne in my wine cellar: is it ok? 😉
Happy to read you regularly Gill!
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That would do just fine! Thanks Fred 🙂
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I’m so sorry that your ‘boss’ responded in the way he did. I can only hope his approach was his way of dealing with it, lots of folk just do not know how to. People might die every day but one’s much loved Dad only dies once.
We are the blessed ones who had much loved Dads.
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Wise words TT x
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Belated, but a happy birthday wish for you. As for ‘boss’, his comment wasn’t boss, it was just stupid.
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Thank you x
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Sorry it’s a bit late but happy birthday and hope you had a great day.
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Thanks Bob, it was great x
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Happy belated birthday!!! I hope you’re celebrating for the whole month?
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Thanks Archie, I think that is a very good idea!
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I am sorry I missed the party. I am not a party animal anyway. I am also sorry that you were not on better terms with the top Boss.
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You were missed!
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